Speaking Different Love Languages? A Life Lesson from Total Opposites. Posted on February 13, 2018February 13, 2018 by Ashley Giovannucci in Putting Love In It's Place, Relationships Constant compliments. Special date nights. Lots of hand holding. It's nice to think that your love language will match up effortlessly with your significant other, but what if it doesn't? That's the case for my husband Joseph and I.